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intimacy surrogacy
with SHAUNA SHAKTIMA

in denver march/april 2024

how you fuck is how you live
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new instant access MasterSex class

CONFIDENT LOVER is three (3) 55-75 minute self-paced video sessions and practices to take into real life that open up a new way to live and fuck.

 

CONSCIOUS COCK : Bring a new awareness to your cock and the consciousness you're fucking from

 

LEGENDARY LOVER : Decode feminine pleasure and learn the No. 1 thing she needs from you to access her pleasure

 

LEADING MAN : Live like you fuck, confidently beckon her ecstatic surrender, and become potently erect in your life

 

* BONUS: Two (2) recorded audios of my guided "Sensual Slow King Cock" Masturbeditation AND "Inner Throne" parts work meditation.

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"In a strange way I actually initially felt some trepidation. You took me to the top of Mount Everest with you, and after being at the peak and summit, becoming grounded again and returning to normal life seemed life it would be a letdown. But you've shown me that instead of being a passive observer, rather becoming an active participant can keep these peaks where they are, or at least gives us the ability to continue striving towards them. Like you say, HOW YOU FUCK IS HOW YOU LIVE, and you've shown me incredible ways to do both."

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are you ready to...

~ Decode relational patterns & behaviors that are creating insecurity and disconnection

~ Redefine what it means to be confident in your masculine energy 

~ Understand where your sexual needs and blocks are coming from and how to express sexual freedom 

~ Unpack & release resentments, anger, sadness, and fear with all the women in your life, past & present

~ Learn the energetic and sensual languages of the feminine and how to create safety for her to open her heart and body to you in full surrender

~ Heal a sexless marriage and respark the flames of desire and trust

~ Understand your attachment strategy, release old wounds, upgrade your erotic knowledge & sexual power, and remember who the fuck you really are 

what is an
intimacy surrogate?

Much like a sexual surrogate partner is the physical stand-in to heal sexual dysfunction, as the first Intimacy Surrogate I recalibrate your relational nervous system to feel and master deeper experiences of emotional, energetic, and spiritual intimacy, thus expanding your capacity for more orgasmic bliss in the bedroom.

Intimacy Surrogacy takes you beyond performance and function into a tantric connection where you feel authentically understood, accepted, loved, and trusting at such a fundamental level, thus expanding how confident you feel in AND out of the bedroom.

In my custom online journeys we focus on education, mindset, reprogramming, communication, inner & outer relationship patterns, and personal sense of self

Intimacy Date Immersions open you to interpersonal energetics, skin2skin attunement, touch therapy, erotic rewiring, and exploring the bridge between sex & spirit

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Intimacy is truth

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“Working with Shauna opened up much more than just my mind around intimacy. She truly helped guide me to heal my heart and become not only a more open hearted, emotionally available man but also grounded in the centered power of the masculine energy I always had. Since working with Shauna I notice my ability to connect with women has changed. I no longer have these deep rooted feelings of anger and avoidance that was pushing them away, instead dates have gotten much easier and more enjoyable. Women seem more naturally drawn to me and I attract more high quality women into my life.”

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Here you have the rare opportunity to freely, playfully, practically, and consciously address intimacy issues like:

~ Insecurities about size or performance

~ Minimal sexual experience or knowledge

~ Understanding women's sexuality & turn-on

~ Recurring unhealthy relationship issues

~ Sexless marriage 

~ Low self-esteem & emasculation 

Romantic social anxiety & initiating

~ Intimacy blocks or emotional numbness

~ Porn addiction

~ Ethical non-monogamy & open relating

~ Floating in life without real purpose

~ Disempowering belief of never being enough

~ Feeling stuck & ready for an unknown change

Virtual Intimacy Surrogacy

RE-MEMBER :

$600

REORIENT :

$1500*

AROUSE :

$3500*

ERECT :

$6000*

Quickie mental adjustment or erotic clarity

(2) 60-min live video sessions, 1-week daily Voxer coaching, (2) guided erotic meditations

+ $100 credit to use on coaching or immersions

Rebound, pivot, and grow in sexual acuity

(5) 60-min live video sessions, 4-weeks Voxer support, PLUS Confident Lover MasterSex class

+ $200 credit to use on coaching or immersions

Decode intimacy patterns & redefine pleasure

(9) 60-min live video sessions, (1) 75-min online intimacy ceremony, 3-months Voxer connection, Confident Lover, PLUS Sexual Shadow & Erotic Gifts custom report

+ $400 credit to use on coaching or immersions

Man reborn, fucking power, relational freedom

(14) 60-min live video sessions, one 75-min online intimacy ceremony, 6-months Voxer relationship, Confident Lover, Sexual Shadow & Erotic Gifts, PLUS custom recorded Masturbeditation + Sex God shamanic journey

+$700 credit to use on coaching or immersions

* Payment plans are available

“Shauna is a rare and unique healer. her razor sharp intellect and her master communications are like nothing else out there. I had been through 3 years of marriage and individual therapy but in 2 months the changes in me were shocking to everyone around me.”

IT'S TIME!

Sex is a microcosm of how intimately knowing and accepting you are of yourself. It reveals what you believe about love, belonging and worthiness.

If your cock isn’t as powerful and dependable as you want…

 

If you ever feel small, anxious, or confused with women, in or out of bed…

 

If your marriage is dry as a bone and you miss who you and she used to be…

 

Other areas of your life are likely lacking clear direction, you’re not to the level you thought you’d be by now, or success in the outer world is killing you and not translating to feeling truly happy with your life.

how you fuck is how you live

 

Men find me when they’re ready to unravel their intimacy issues beyond surface pleasures into a lasting impact on their masculine confidence and romantic relationships.

I come into your life when you are in transition or are ready to live a brand new operating system in how you relate to your body and women.

this is real transformation in your personal power, relationship patterns, and how you fuck

two ways to get intimately deep with me...

In-Person Intimacy Immersions

INTIMACY GUIDANCE DATE - 3 Hours

Perfect for anxious men lacking experience or returning to the dating world. Re-regulate your system to the feminine and relax into authentic, energetic, sensual connection. Includes 60-min online rendezvous prior, 1-week Voxer integration,

+ free access to Confident Lover MasterSex class.

$1500

FEMININE TRYST WITH DESTINY - 4.5 Hours

Heal your wounds with the feminine, learn how to slow down into her erotic languages, and receive somatic & soul nourishment through tantric practice and deep intimacy.

Includes (2) 45-min online sessions, 2-weeks Voxer + Confident Lover

$2500

INTIMACY HEALING RETREAT - 2-day/overnight

For the man ready for a complete re-education, rehaul, and upleveling of his erotic power, relational ease, and personal confidence through sensual shamanic ceremony.

Includes 2-hour pre-retreat in person Intimacy Healing Date,

(3) 60-min online sessions, 3-weeks Voxer + Confident Lover

$6000

"This is a complete out of body experience where you have the opportunity to reflect on yourself, your life, your purpose, and she will teach you how to take back the masculine side of yourself that has been missing for however long."

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Online sessions may include intuitive mentoring, parts work, somatic therapy, shamanic healing journeys, metaphysical readings, vocal & cathartic movement activations, sound healings, expressive arts, breath work, shadow work, tantric practices, and much more from a wisdom bag collected for over 20 years. 

Some of the real insights come through voice coaching available daily through a free walkie-talkie app called Voxer. Nothing needs to be saved and remembered for next week's session. I'm available for 5-30 minute checkins Mon-Fri as real time experiences and questions unfold.

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"I have realized I had not given myself a chance to really grow as a person who knows how to connect to people. Shauna let me be myself, let me shed these layers of self-doubt and strip myself down to a base layer where I could learn to be loved and to love myself. I felt a huge weight was lifted off my own confidence issues with Shauna's gentle and sweet guidance through an intensely passionate experience. Her coaching helped me believe in myself that I can find this type of love on my own now that I have experienced what such an emotional energy can feel like."

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Hello my love, I'm SHAUNA!

I’m a deeply emotional and sexually free-spirited feminine being with a superpower of translating complex and mysterious concepts of emotions, the essence of the feminine, and sexual-spiritual energetics into practical logic a man understands from a place he never knew existed within him.

 

My passionate care and intuitive wisdom were born through emancipation from a cult and healing religious-imprinted sexual distortion, awakening sex positivity & freedom through ethical non-monogamy, and two decades of focused personal healing and training in numerous modalities.

 

Driven with an obsession for the Sacred Sacral, I was a practicing birth doula for seven years and initiated into the Tantric Arts in 2017.

 

Since 2019 I've held the truth of men’s hearts as an Intimacy Surrogate Escort, opening them to somatic and experiential presence with the feminine heart and orgasmic bliss beyond the genitals.

 

My soul’s medicine is informed by psychotherapy tools, Buddhist psychology & mindfulness meditation, energy healing modalities, shamanism & plant medicines, trauma-informed somatic relational therapy training, and a dharma to understand the messiness of being human when trying to embody both freedom and deep connection.

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"That special place you hold is where I can remind myself what I've learned and how to bring that to the front of my life whenever I want. It's plugging in, and I'm so grateful that you shined a light on how I can do that in any moment. you're beautiful, thank you for doing what you do. Life is crazy and awesome and works perfectly!

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